Establishing What You Desire And Ensuring What You Already Have More Proficient

Wednesday, March 10, 2010 21:33
Posted in category Self Help
No Comments

If you had everything in this world you wanted; what would you do? Have you ever asked yourself that question before? Maybe you have and maybe you have not. Think about having desiring nothing ; whatever that might be, that you think would make you happy. My thought would be that life would be pretty dull in that there would be no purpose to life it would no doubt be void.

In Life Coaching, my thoughts go to this it is not what we do not have that makes us unhappy. It is that we do not know how to handle what we have. We are all on a journey toward something but we know that having enormous amounts of money does not supply full contentment, happiness or success. If it did, there would not be so many people in so much pain in Hollywood. They have lots of money, but they cannot be fulfilled with one woman or one man for any length of time, they adopt dozens of kids trying to prove they can be good parents, every time you turn around; someone has been arrested for a DUI. That is not the life that most of us covet, if we are honest with ourselves. The list goes on and on. You cannot buy your way into peaceful living…it takes looking into your soul and putting your priorities in order and starting at the top of the list working through those issues one at a time.

Do you know that the typical person cannot seem to do that? I do not know why it is so hard for us humans to take a course in seeking oneself and say okay what I can do to make my life better. What am I doing partially and how can “I” fix it? I have seen people that I cared about who were helpless it seemed and they could not see that their negative attitude made their life lesstolerable . These are the people you want to shake and say, stop doing this to yourself. A negative attitude is worse than having a aliment sometimes, because if the positive occur in their life; they tear it down immediately with the “what ifs.” We cannot life our life successfully with the what ifs or what could happen being the dominating factors in life. When I start to think a negative thought, I try to replace it with a thankful thought of what I am blessed with and ask for an ability to create within myself what I need to make things better.

Why not stop and ask yourself; what do I need to do better with what I have? Most of us could take what we have and make a few changes in our life and live an outstanding life, if we chose to. If you do not have the perfect job; my advice is in this economy it might be better to devote yourself to making your job more enjoyable if at all possible. I just saw a clip on television where a lady had applied for 600 jobs and had not had an interview yet. I am not kidding. If you have a degree and a lot of experience in the same field and there are open positions available and know you have what it take to for the new job; then it might be time to move on. A lot of times it is not the job; it is what you might not be devoting to it. If it is impossible, it is your call and a step forward is probably better than no step at all, but with caution and keeping it to yourself until you have landed the other job.

If you are unhappy in a relationship; maybe it is not the relationship you are unhappy with. It could be you are miserable with you. The only way to get happy with you is to be honest with yourself and make sure you are doing what you should be doing to make the relationship work. Especially if it is a marriage and you have children. There are deviations to every rule when it comes to relationships. A good relationship does bring comfort and enjoyment in ones life and it is this part of life that is the most rewarding and best to keep preserved. A marriage that is successful is far more important than landing the VP job.

Related Blogs

You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.
Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Leave a Reply

Security Code:

«
»